Stages of life

Late night conversation, where we confess our point of view, our deep thoughts and what do we truly value in our life. From that, late night conversation make us learn a lot about people, make us know more about ourselves. I stay up late talk to my friend last night and the conversation make me realized that, there are different stages of life. At this age, we all are growing up. We facing many different struggle, we make a lot of important decision at this age, it is the stage where we change our mindset and eventually it change our life.

How would you feel if you find out your boyfriend been cheated on you for almost 3 years and he still pretend like nothing happen before? My friend is facing this problem recently, her boyfriend take everything for granted yet don’t feel guilty at all. Now, just one question, are you going to let go of him, set yourself free? Your answer maybe yes, maybe no. If I were you, if I was still at the adolescence stage where I believe love is everything, maybe I will forgive him and continue this relationship. Even though the friends discourage my decision, my family blame on me, the world is about to abandon me, but still all I want is just him.

But now, we all have grew up as an adult. I realized family love is irreplaceable, your family love you so much, why you want to be the one hurting yourself? No one can hurt you unless you allow them to do so. If only this kind of thing happen to me, my choice would be different. I will have enough courage to let go of that relationship and start everything new. Hopefully, my friend will face the truth, and face herself honestly.

It takes time, it takes your courage. As we grow up, we have change our mind, we should have become a better person, become a more mature person. At the different stage of life, we think differently. Life is lifelong progress. Everything happen either for a reason or a lesson. We have learnt so much in life, separation, quarrel, ups and downs, always remember what matter to you the most from the beginning till the end, and don’t spoil your priority.